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Hathras Case

 On December 2016 a heartbreaking event took place, where a student in Delhi was raped and brutally hurt that caused her death. This event fuelled the people to protest against the violence and harassment against the women in India. Seeing the need of change in our law, our jurisdiction did came up with some amendment in the law “crime against women” for the improvement all over the India. 

Now 4 year later a same case has taken place not so far from Delhi but near by it, in Uttar pardesh. A 19 year old girl was raped by 4 men and brutally hurt her spinal code that costed her, her life. One thing that I could never understand that  “we can change the laws, we can change the choice of our outfits, we can change our schedule, but how can we change the thoughts of a person???”

That girl from a valmiki caste, was allegedly raped by four men from the Thakur caste on September 14. She was strangled during the brutal rape which resulted in cut off her tongue and damage in the spinal cord. Recently the reports of the postmortem claims that the victim was not been raped as they could not find the sperm samples, if I go by the exact word of the district magistrate Praveen Kumar he said that “ the sample did not have sperm and thus makes it clear that no rape or gang rape took place with the girl”, this statement left me in a shock. First of all they did not tested the victim as soon as possible after the incident and then they claimed this report, well seeing the circumstances here clearly the reports has been tempered and there was a fault of police as they are trying to hide the main facts of the case.

!! Know Your Inner Voice, Will Help You Get Your Peace !!

!! Know Your Inner Voice, Will Help You Get Your Peace !!

                                                                   

                                                                         

It took me a while to understand, how inner peace and outer happiness is different in our life. You can get that outer happiness by spending money, lounging and by shopping,  all those activities which gives us a bit happiness for that moment, is entertaining for a while but once it is over we are back to the same stressing life’s of ours. The sudden feeling of sadness, or feeling a bit down or depressive, these thoughts is kind of challenging to handle. Now I understand this might be because of the work pressure or it just a mood swing for some people, but I am going to share some ways so that, you can overcome these negative thoughts.

                                                                         

by prachi

                                                                         

Eccedentesiast!!

    Make yourself worth to someone! 

 

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

People around us puts on fake faces every day, you might just judge them because of their shiny jewelry, expensive clothes and their fancy lifestyle but the bitter truth is that they are hiding their fears, their anxiety, their sorrow, their sadness and many negative thoughts behind their cheerful face that is visible to the world. Keeping all that thoughts and emotion inside you is harmful; we all know that, but showing them to another person will only give you tags like depressed, anxious and also sometime it might be a reason of your heart break. People around us sometime does not  get that calling someone by funny names which discriminate them from others is not a way of joking or kidding or behaving with other people, calling someone fatty, skinny, dark or dwarf !! is “I just not funny”. This might be a joke for you but it will turn into someone’s insecurities.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

There is a word called “Eccedentesiast”, it comes from the Latin language that mean “I present to you teeth as a performer” in simple words that would be “Someone that puts on a fake smile”. You might not know the person you are making fun of, is a good impostor and your “itsy bitsy joke” might trigger their wistful thoughts.  This is indeed a “Sad generation with happy selfies”.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

Just be someone’s friend to share their thoughts, to help them overcome their insecurities, to improve them to be a better human and feel happier day by day. This might help you overcome your sadness and it will give you a real happy feeling in your heart. Believe me that joy will be priceless and will worth more than any expensive jewelry in this world. I’m just happy that I found people around me showed me my true value and help me build up my self-respect. No matter, how down I am. They will support me forever! And I know that, cause we have stick together through thick and thin. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

That’s it I’m out! Be happy guys! :) 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

Marital Rape!!

 

 

I came across an interested topic today; I want you all to think about it. Just read the story below.            

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

                                                                           Art credit - Prachi

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

There was a girl and a boy, who fell in love. Well that girl had strict parents meanwhile that boy's family was open-minded and supports his decisions. One day when that girl and the boy was roaming in the park, one of the girl's relatives saw her holding hands walking and talking to that boy. As the concerned relative will do, he told this to her parents.

At this point I should probably tell you that her father was a policeman and he was furious on this fact that her daughter likes a boy. He immediately caged her inside her room and asked never to leave the house. He does wants her daughter to be happy, as being a father he wanted to meet up with the boy to discuss about his plan for the future, but his wife was an illiterate person, she was more worried about how the society thinks rather than the happiness of her own daughter, she convinced him to drop this idea and to arrange a marriage of their daughter in a village, far from here so that nobody could find about it.

As soon as possible, they arranged a wedding for her daughter in a village with an older man, almost doubled the age of that girl. This girl was forced to marry a person whom she had never seen or met in her life. Night after her marriage she got raped, by her own husband. I know you would say, “RAPED”! How? She was married to that person, he is her husband and it’s lawful to have a sexual relationship with your partner.

To answer that I would like to remind you, in Indian penal code it is stated that it is consider as a rape when “A sexual intercourse takes place without the consent and will of the women”. And that girl who was forced to marry a person, was naturally been raped cause clearly she don’t have the will for this act and yet she had to do it! I don’t know how many times or how many nights that girl was raped and no-one knows about it, not her policeman father, her orthodox mother and not even the “society”, would care about her condition. She might be quite, because she had turned off her emotions and feeling and probably dead inside. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

                                Art credit- Prachi sharma

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

Well who to blame huh! These feeling were the reason she was in this mess after all. And surprisingly this is not the worst part about the marital rape. I tell you the worst part is that now we have a rapist and a victim in our society that nobody knows about, because it’s not a crime in the eyes of law. Yet another girl was raped and the criminal is her own husband living with her, instead in the prison.

So, this is a story I wanted to share with all of you people a “story of a girl who had been raped and nobody knows”.                          

 

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